August 9, 2025
Near Big Arm, Montana
You may have forgotten this, or you might be young enough that you never heard this, but historically speaking, a dark room was where professional photographers went to develop their pictures.
Although most people now take photos with their phones or with digital cameras, it wasn’t always that way.
Inside your camera was a roll of film that usually contained 24 shots. When you had taken 24 pictures, you ejected the roll of film, stashed it away, and put in a new one.
When you wanted to see the proofs of the photos you took, you handed them over to a developer. But if you were a professional photographer, you had your own dark room where you removed the film and inserted it into an acid-based water solution to develop your prints.
Although the lab room the photographer developed photos in was dark, a dim light hung above the area where the film was submerged.
After soaking the negatives in this water, the photographer was able to see a clear photo coming through, one which was then hung above his eyes to get a better look.
Think of it: The photographer operated in a dark room so that the “negatives” he was working with could be turned into “positive pictures.”
The darker the room, the easier it was to see the light in the photos.
If we recall this old way of developing photos and apply it to our lives, it can lead to tremendous optimism.
Anytime you feel frustrated, dismayed or upset, you can realize you are in this dark place to develop positive pictures that will help you move forward.
There is a way out of the darkness.
In the dark room of your mind, you never lose the capacity to look at your negatives and turn them into positives.
With this in mind, every time you feel a bit lost or confused, you can ask yourself, “Where are the negatives I want to develop? Where are the negatives that I can turn into positive pictures suitable for framing, suitable for publication, suitable for nothing more than a scrapbook, if I so choose?”
Once you have developed your so-called negatives into positive prints, you will feel absolutely awesome.
In fact, you will begin to feel awesome the moment you begin to look at the negatives that you want to turn into prints. You do not have to wait to see the negative turned into a photograph for you to notice a shift in your outlook.
Once you get your hands moving, once you are staring at something you want to develop, your feelings change.
You have clarity, you have a balanced and harmonious outlook. You are no longer stuck in a dark, gloomy place. You are growing and developing in the dark room of the mind.
Here endeth today’s lesson.
Matthew Furey
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