Much of what is passed along as “constructive criticism” is neither helpful or instructive.
When someone’s words are “constructive” they build a skill inside of you that is clearly visible.
The best teacher I have ever had looked at what I was doing and said one word, “No.” Other times he simply shook his head from side to side.
The word “no” was usually followed by a pause that lasted as long as 10 seconds.
The teacher now had my attention.
Then he showed me what to do again. And he continued to show me until I got it.
With this approach I learned far faster than ever before and began using the method myself.
No…
Pause…
Show it again. And again. And again.
Saying less is more.
Matthew Furey
